Wall of Mouths

Heya all first time here and amazed i didnt think of joining sooner i am in desperate need of advice

Situation
Me and my other half had been living in my parents attic ( bearing in mind the attic was part of a B&B so reasonable size) due to noise restraint or us not being allowed to wear shoes cuz of the noise we decided to move out becuse of our age and the current climet with the ressesion my partners parents brought a small flat with garden and rent it to us … oh yeh by the way him an his big sis are spoilt
since moving in his sister who has her own house desided that they wanted a bigger garden so sold their shed, the parents said they get the garadge for their crap zack has manadged to claw back some space for our crap 1/2ish now
the grandad who has his own house with garden AND an allotment has half the garden for veg for them nt enough for the family to benifit (oh and uses the hose pipe instead of the water butt so WE have to pay to water their veg)
yesterday when he saw we had moved our chickens run he said oh are they going back in there? i said no thay are living down the bottom of the garden now he said oh well then i will dig up the rest of the garden becuse i want ot grow carrots as well… later when i was at work zack’s parents called and said to him that grandaddy would like to grow carrotts would that be ok.. as in tough shit hes doing it but we’le pretend you got to make the desision thank whichever deiety was watching over at that point cuz he told them no oh and the grandad also wants us to water and check for bugs every day so he dosent have to keep coming over which he never bothers saying i walks round starkers after a shower to dry off and find the family in the backyard
oh we have 4 hens = if lucky 2/3 eggs per day they are older ladies, his sisters partner does natural bodybuilding (Wierdo) an wants 12 eggs a week for free i sell them to cover the hens food an provide cheap meals for us to save money if i gave that many away i loose alot yet they dont seem to care
my younger an only bro is coming over for a year after uni havent seen him in 2 years staying with our parents at points the odd wknd here an there he may have to stay with us becuse of space at our parents … they dont want him to be allowed to stay YET when we moved in they pushed like hell for us to have a cousin(their side) flat share im sorry but double standards or is it just me?
we want to try for kids in a year or so and are in the process of getting a morgate to by the place off his parents
please am i being selfish here or is this wierd …